10 MORE Ways to Catch a Cheating Husband or Wife like a Spy
If you want to find the truth, then check out ten more techniques to catch a cheating husband, wife or partner like a spy.
Most of these come from my first-hand experience of how to find cheating evidence and what to look for.
Some of these involve spy technology and a little bit of patience, others you can check right now.
Know the law when using technology since it involves you spying on your partner.
But above all only snoop around if you can handle the truth.
Please stay safe.
10 Ways to Find the Truth and Catch a Cheating Husband, Wife or Partner
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1. Spy App
Hands down this is the best and most thorough way to catch a cheating husband with hard evidence.
A spy app gets installed right on the target cell phone and can pull up incriminating evidence that leaves no doubt that your husband, wife or partner has engaged in an extramarital affair. (It works on all devices, including phones).
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And it does so without them knowing that you are spying on them.
With a spy app you can monitor or discover the following activity:
- Received and Sent Text Messages (to see both sides of the conversation)
- Location tracking (are they really where they say they are?)
- Call logs (filtered by the most frequently called numbers)
- Photos (taken by the target device)
- Emails
- Instant Messages (from chat apps and social media)
- Web Browsing History (including sites your partner buys gifts for their lover)
- Social Media (including photos with the two of them on their lover’s account)
(Check out how this works here on the mSpy app (affiliate link)).
The Problems with Spy Apps:
- You must manually install them on the device, so you risk getting caught spying on them.
- It’s illegal to install spy apps on someone else’s device. You must own the device. And even then you best know the laws behind spying on someone.
Regardless, you will find the truth with spy apps.
2. Run an Online Background Check
Another reliable (yet legal) way to find the truth of your partner’s possible affair is with an online background check.
This is a method a private investigator would use to catch a cheating husband or wife, but you can do it yourself.
I recommend Truthfinder to run your background check, the leader of the industry.
It could take months of ongoing monitoring to get the evidence you need.
With a active membership to Truthfinder you could receive the following reports.
- Location history (where do they routinely go?)
- Contact details (of the people they regular keep in touch with- expect to find the lover’s numbers quite often).
- Dating Profiles (Truthfinder could find dating profiles from the email used to set them up)
- Social media profiles (possibly hidden secondary ones you don’t know about so they can keep in touch with their lover via messaging behind your back)
- Online Photos (I caught my wife this way once)
- Web Searches (are they booking getaway trips with their lover or buying them gifts or visiting dating sites)
- Mysterious Bank and Other Financial Accounts
- Marriage Certificates (he or she might have an ex you don’t know about, and they might be in contact with them)
- Property Information (your partner might own property you don’t know of and be meeting up with the lover there)
[Click here] to run a background check on Truthfinder.com Fill in your spouse’s or partner’s name to run a background check.
3. Check Car for Clues
I can tell you from first-hand knowledge where cheaters tend to put affair evidence.
One place is in their car.
- Gift receipts
- Condoms
- Packed bags with change of clothes, lingerie, shoes, toiletries
- Hairs on seats and headrests
- House keys (to their lover’s place)
- Envelopes stuffed with love letters
- Massage oils
- Movie, concert or game ticket stubs
- Garage openers
- Secondary phones (just for communicating with their lover)
- Club membership cards
- Sex Toys
- Couples massage appointment cards
- Wrapped gifts
- Jewelry
And more!
[Click here] to read my blog post on where to find cheating evidence in a car to catch a cheating husband or wife.
4. Hide a Digital Voice Recorder
Suspect that your partner’s lover sneaks into your home when when you’re out, or that they ride together in the family car?
Hide a voice recorder where it will catch a cheating husband ‘s or wife’s conversations.
This is where the majority of their conversations will take place.
I’ve had several visitors to my site try out this option.
Some digital voice recorders activate after sensing someone talking, which saves on battery power and time playing back audio.
And many take on secretive shapes, most notably pens right out of a spicy movie.
[Click here] to check out some digital voice recorders on my spy gadgets review.
5. Hidden Spy Camera
Another way to catch a cheating husband, wife or partner in the action is with a hidden spy camera.
Hidden spy cameras take on more secretive shapes than voice recorders most notably clocks, smoke detectors.
Or choose one that’s small enough to hide in between some books.
[Click here] to check out some hidden cameras in my spy gadgets review.
6. Check Phone Bill Records
If you share phone plans then check for suspicious numbers that you don’t recognize- especially if the number appears several times.
Run a reverse phone look up here to link it with a person.
Once you know the name look for pics of them here.
Online photos may show your spouse or partner with them hugging, holding hands or kissing, perhaps even spending time with each other’s kids.
7. Look for their Secret Second Phone
If you don’t find any strange activity on your shared phone plan records then quite possibly your spouse or partner has a secondary cell phone.
This is one of the easiest ways to get away with cheating, especially if they have a separate phone plan with it.
Then they could maintain secret social media accounts conveniently right from their phone.
Good news though!
Find this second phone number with the help of Truthfinder.
8. Try the "Find My Iphone" App (of "Find My Friends" App)
If your partner has become a contact through the app Find My Friends and forgotten about it then you could randomly search for their location during suspicious patterns like when they being to work overtime regularly, hand out with friends the same nights of the week and tend to not return calls or text messages during these times.
Or if they claim to be out with friends but stay out super late.
At the same time, if you own the Iphone they use then simply use another device to check for the phone’s location.
9. Google Secret Pics (or Likes) on Social Media
Your partner’s lover could upload pics of the two of them, especially if they do not know that your partner is in a relationship.
Another way to find these pics is to drag pics of your spouse or partner into Google’s search bar. This could reveal pics of them together on any social media account.
If you don’t find any that way then conduct a search here.
This search could also find likes or comments on photos by your partner.
From there knowing the name of the Other Person could reveal how they know each other and their mutual acquaintances are, which will lead to more clues and evidence.
Are they a neighbor, co-worker, members of the same gym, business networking group, etc?
10. Check their Internet Search History
Run a search history on shared devices to see where your partner has snooped around online.
This won’t work if they have searched incognito mode, but they might have forgotten a time or two to use this option which will reveal some of their searches.
Of course, if you do share a device, then you could install a spyware.
Click here to learn how to view internet search history in multiple browsers.
(It’s different depending which you use: Chrome, Firefox, Microsoft Edge; and on the device- mobile or desktop)
Summary to Find the Truth, Catch a Cheating Husband, Wife or Partner Like a Spy
If you want to find the truth about an affair just make sure you can handle the truth and are in a safe position to deal with the aftermath.
If you begin to search for evidence, and your partner is indeed cheating, you will find the truth, you’ll come across something at some point because all cheaters make mistakes.
They will miss something while covering their tracks.
If you’d like to get more advanced tips to catch a cheating husband or wife in an affair then…
…check out this eBook created by a private investigator for professional spy-catching techniques.
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What Activity of theirs Makes You Suspicious?
Want to Catch a Cheating Husband, Wife or Partner? What evidence have you found? (Leave a Comment below)
Truthfinder and ALL similar sites are WORTHLESS to catch your partner cheating. Most of their info is outdated by years, since it is pulled from public records. These sites wont give you anything but 5 year old addresses. They list people who live near you whom youve never met as associates. Try looking yourself up first, as they have to let you do that free. See how inaccurately they have your information before you pay for a report.
The only thing that is helpful, if you know an address your partner goes to, you can search who lives there. Thats how i found the girl hes cheating on me with. But I never found any other useful info on this type of site.
I think it’s a case-by-case basis. It will unearth useful information for some and not as much for others. My cheating ex-wife’s photos posted to secondary social media accounts would come up with a search on Truthfinder or similar sites even to this day and that happened several years ago now, for example. If the affair partner paid for a phone number so they could communicate more easily then this could also pop up in the search. Plus, keep in mind, new evidence could pop up as the affair lingers on. But there is no guarantee you will find what you are looking for with these searches. Either way, you may have to do some digging and piecing together the evidence you do find to get to the truth.
In some states, just because your spouse has cheated on you doesn’t mean that you have grounds for divorce. If you don’t live in a “no fault” divorce state, you will have to provide proof of the adultery before any court will consider it at all. This proof must be either an eyewitness that can testify in court or if you have pictures of your spouse’s affair; you can as well get to spy on his or her cell phone and gain access to chats history or text messages that indicates and prove your spouse was involved in having an affair and cheating (BUT this is ONLY legal if you own the phone); you can also get to monitor all locations as well as spy and access all messages including deleted messages as well that proves this. Do you feel/suspect your partner or spouse might just be having an extra marital affair and cheating behind your back? Don’t know how to go about it and find out? Why don’t you GET THE EVIDENCE that prove his/her infidelity. If you ever suspect infidelity in your relationship or marriage and you need to get the evidence that clearly indicates such, you can also run a background check to find photos of you and your partner together, location history and secret social media accounts and dating profiles.