Hot Lattes and Tips for Meeting Single Men at Coffee Shops

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Meeting single men online can suck when you don’t know how to write online profiles that attract quality men.

That’s why I suggest these more effective dating profile techniques for you to achieve more success, but today, let’s forget about online dating.

BUT … take a break from online dating. Today let’s talk about meeting single men in the best real life situations, particularly in coffee shops.

[Related post: How to Flirt with and Attract a Guy at Work]

Why waste your daily runs to the grocery store to just pick up some produce when you could be producing something else?… meeting single men and getting dates with them.

And coffee shops are not just meant for picking up hot lattes, you could also meet handsome men.

Now Ideally the Best Places for Meeting Single Men would be at…

…locations and situations where you will encounter the same guy at the same place time and time again.

Why?

Because you can learn more about his personality, tendencies, likes and dislikes and then naturally turn that into a date.

BUT…

… in terms of compatiblity your Mr. Right could pop up anywhere or any time in your life.

Look to your right. That might be him sitting next to you.

And you won’t find out unless you…

…start any conversation you can to get the ball rolling and keep it rolling by discovering what he likes talking about.

Then with those two mindsets you can implement these…

5 Strategies for Meeting Single Men at Coffee Shops

1. Sit at Big Table (or at Cluster of Chairs)

You won’t meet a guy at the farthest table from every one else. Do not isolate yourself. Meeting single men means situating yourself close to where other men will come.

2. Sit Next to Condiment Bar

Another idea for setting up shop for meeting single men is to sit close to the condiment bar. It gives you a few seconds to strike up a conversation with the next few techniques on this list.

3. Try Observation Conversation Starters

Look for a reasonable excuse to start a conversation that will look natural. Then remark on what you see with a question.

• “Oh, are you a (name of team on his t-shirt or hat) fan?”
• “I’ve considered getting that kind of laptop. May I ask what made you choose it?”
• “Excuse. I hope I’m not interrupting, but it looks like an interesting book you’re reading. You’re really into it. May I ask what it’s about?”
• “Wow, may I say what a cool sticker you have on your laptop? What does it mean and where did you get it?”

4. Ask for Advice Based on Their Areas of Expertise

People love to talk about what they are good at and every one loves to help others in need.

“Excuse me. You look really look interested in what you’re doing on the computer. So I hope you don’t mind me asking what you do for work or what you’re studying. I’ve met a lot of interesting people by asking that.”

Then…

5. Express Interest and How Impressed You Are..

…with whatever they say in response to number 4.

Get them to talk. Ask them questions.

• “I’ve fascinated that you get to work remotely from a coffee shop. How do you like it?”
• “Really? I admire you for owning your own business. It fascinates me. May I ask what motivated you to get into that business?”
• “You’re studying for your real estate exam? Fascinating? Are you looking to become a sellers agent or buyers agent?”

You know, whatever it takes to keep the conversation going.

Read their social cues to determine if they wish to keep talking or not and if they show interest in you.

The best sign..

… the smile, look you in the eye and ask you questions back.

And please remember…

• Some people will not want to talk.
• People can be complete bores.
• And some might be married and don’t want to get picked up.

Talk anyway, it’s the only chance you have for meeting single men in order to end your loneliness.

Don’t take things personally.

Just like you don’t always land the job after a great interview, you won’t always get a date or exchange numbers when meeting single men in real life situations.

The point: all it takes is one guy and you won’t care about the rest.

Time for Action

As they get ready to leave mention how you enjoyed speaking with them and if they wouldn’t mind friending each other on FB.

If they agree then next ask for their name and friend them right on the spot. Mention how you hope to there or a different coffee shop meet next week.

This way if they respectfully decide not to exchange contact information that they are leaving the coffee shop and it won’t feel as awkward as it would if they were still there.

Plus you can always reach out on FB to ask them to meet up.

Next Step

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