Online Infidelity Recovery Center to Repair Your Broken Heart 24/7
When I caught my wife cheating for the second time I wish I had an affair survival resource like the online Infidelity Recovery Center. It just didn’t exist back then.
I did, however, benefit from reading various online articles and resources, such as Break Free from the Affair (read my review) by Dr. Bob Huizenga and his How to Save a Marriage (read my review) eBooks.
In my case, I did not stay with my wife, but these resources did play a role in recovering from the pain of the affair.
Your journey to recovery could be different. As you’ll find out below depending on the reason for your partner’s affair and the level of egregiousness for cheating, you might be in a better situation to stay together. My affair recovery journey led me down a different path.
On my way to recovery, I wrote my own free eBook that you can pick up Win-Win Affair Survival (click here to access).
“But I Have So Many Questions. And Do Other People Go Through the Same Infidelity Scenarios?”
For a while I felt alone.
It felt like I was the only one going through the pain of discovering my now ex-wife’s betrayal and eventual abandonment.
And I’d bet you feel the same way. For me not only did I read but I wrote.
Besides the aforementioned eBooks that I offer for free, I launched this blog and wrote blog posts such as:
- Serial Cheater Profile: 9 Personality Traits
- Forgive Cheating Spouse? 9 “Second Chance after Cheating” Decisions
- Cheat or Change? Will My Spouse Cheat Again?
- Why Cheating Men Stay Married: 10 Reasons They Don’t Divorce or Leave
- Serial Cheating Wife: Signs of a Cheating Wife Who WILL NEVER STOP!
- Confront Cheating Spouse: 5 (Effective) and (NOT) Effective Ways
- 10 Ways of How to Spot a Sociopath (and Why You Must RUN If You’re Dating One!)
While I don’t expect you to write or even launch your own infidelity survival and recovery blog.
I highly suggest you take the time to check out my articles and Dr. Huizinga’s Infidelity Recovery Center.
The first level is free to access, so at least take advantage of the resources there.
Or before you click over to check the IRC out, take a sneak peek below to see if it’s right for you by checking out my brief list of benefits and features.
Your road to affair survival and recovery could involve any of these steps…
This Online Infidelity Recovery Center Can Help You In These Ways…
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Identify the Reason Why Your Partner Cheated
It might not be easy to do, but because it will require that the betraying partner cooperate and share some of the details and their feelings. But I feel it’s important to know just how egregious the affair is.
Then in part, regardless of what the betraying partner says, you will know how serious he/she is about fixing the lost trust and how much they regret hurting you.
Determine If You Can Save Your Marriage
Their reason to cheat could indicate how likely you can save the marriage after the affair even if all the right action is taken and all the right words are said.
This eBook sights 7 types of affairs and after each description, Dr. Huizenga rates the probability of saving the marriage. Break Free from the Affair is also included in Level 3 of his Infidelity Recovery Center.
Decide If You Even Want to Save Your Marriage
You both might be in agreement to rebuild the broken trust after the affair, but take the right steps to respond to the pain.
Do not fall for the temptation to rush getting back together before you take the steps to grieve and decide if you feel strong enough to deal with wondering if he/she will cheat again. Take your time on the road to recovery. I can tell you it’s tough, but if you both want it then it can work.
(*If you’re the betraying spouse you can read my interview with Dr. Frank Gunzburg of how you can help your ailing partner heal properly and fairly.)
Level 4 in the Infidelity Recovery Center includes this eBook to surviving the first few weeks after discovering an affair.
48-Hour Affair Bootcamp- Advice to STOP the Affair NOW!
Time may be of the essence if you feel things are slipping out of control. I don’t recommend rushing things, but if you feel like you’re losing a grip then you might find that the 48-Hour Bootcamp in Level 2 of this online infidelity recovery center is a life-saver (at least emotionally speaking).
Check out some of the lessons you will learn to give yourself the best chance to STOP the affair
Part I of Dr. Huizenga’s One-Hour Class
- 3 common outcomes when the affair is brought into the open
- The MAJOR reason your spouse had an affair
- Why your spouse desperately needs you – but won’t admit it
- 5 subtle but effective ways to get your spouse to change
- 4 times when you should NOT “work on the relationship” together
[Click Here] to get more information of infidelity coach Dr. Huizenga’s online infidelity recovery center.
Part II – the second One-Hour Class
- 3 common barriers that knock you off the recovery road
- Understanding and using your pain in recovery
- Overcoming your isolation
- How to powerfully and calmly confront your spouse with a “canned” statement
- What it means if your spouse refuses to change
- 3 major keys to evaluate readiness for change
Get more information on Level 2 and the 48-Hour Affair Bootcamp HERE
How to Calm Your Emotions in Spite of the Chaos
I’d say this is the hardest part to do. Think about it, no matter what happens you’re cheating partner is going to do what they’re going to do. You cannot control that, you can influence it with (for example, with the strategies taught in Break Free from the Affair in Level 3 of the online Infidelity Recovery Center).
It was hard for me at first, but I found a way to keep things in perspective and not let her choice spoil the rest of my life and what I had going on.
And if you want any chance of saving your marriage then you must avoid the mistakes that will make the situation worse.
Take these steps to calm your pain and emotions to give yourself the best chance to heal sooner than later.
Learn from Other Betrayed Spouses’ Experiences- Recorded One-on-One Audio Coaching Calls
You’re not alone and you can learn from other people’s experience with living through an affair.
Find out what others have gone through. See if you can relate with the recorded audio from Dr. Huizenga’s coaching calls from Level 4 of the IRC.
Learn from the advice he provides his clients (only first names given)
Check out some of the headlines from the One-on-One Recorded Coaching Calls
- How Can I Compete with a 29-Year-Old Blond Bombshell?
- How Do I Pull The Plug When I Care So Much?
- Meeting His/Her Needs Won’t Work with a Narcissist
- How do I Get Him to Talk?
- Banishing Him to the Basement Works
- A Turning Point Changes Your World
- Broken Promises. Broken Spirit. Broken Body
Common Questions Affair Survivors Ask- Recorded Group Q & A Video Group Coaching Sessions
Got lots of questions about what to expect? Or what it means when your spouse does or says something specific? I’m sure you do like I did. Too bad Level One of the online Infidelity Recovery Center didn’t exist back then when I caught my wife cheating again, the second time (out of three).
Check out the Headlines of the Group Q&A Sessions
- My Spouse Refuses to Work on the Relationships
- He Tells Me He Loves Me AND HER
- Should I Confront My Cheating Husband’s Enabling Friends?
- What Does Withholding Sex Mean?
- I’m Tired of Trying to Save the Marriage While Being a Better Person
- What to Do with a Cheating Husband Who Has an Emotional Affair with a Co-Worker
- After the Affair He Shuts Down
- He Wants to Save the Marriage but Still Sees the Other Woman
- How Do I Get Rid of the Pain?
- How Do I Get Rid of the Images?
- Can I Win Him Back- Or Is It Too Late?
Access Help 24/7- Get Started with Dr. Huizenga’s Online Infidelity Recovery Center
Anytime, anywhere you have internet access and a few minutes to read, watch or listen, access Dr. Huizenga’s virtual Infidelity Recovery Center.
The first level is free, so gain access to Level one here.
Then consider checking out the other levels of resources.
