Top 10 Flirty Text Messages to Make Him Chase You
Besides flirty and playful body language, flirty text messages make him chase and capture his heart.
Do it right and he will NOT stop thinking about you.
Without fail you will become his secret obsession.
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I want to jump-start your texting success with men right away with…
So let’s start with My Golden Rule of Flirty Text Messages…
The Most Daring Texter Gets the Other to Chase.
Men cannot resist bold, playful, flirty texts.
Boring, “I’m-not-sure-what-to-say-texts” lose our interest fast.
What’s the one thing that you want him to do when you text him?
To respond to your text, of course!
And my list will achieve just that.
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I read many other blogger posts on the topic of ways to write flirty text messages to men.
And while, yes, I did find some decent tips.
I found some faults with them too.
But my post is different.
I’m a man.
Men did not write those posts. I disagreed with some of the suggestions I came across.
I love engaging in flirty texts.
Other men love flirty text messages too.
And women that also like playful texting turn all us men on.
It doesn’t matter your age, your looks, your body type, what you do for a living…none of that matters.
After you read my tips I promise that you will find immediate success to make him reply and make him chase you.
In this post you will find more than enough tips to change the texting game for you.
Nothing overly sexual, just cute and romantically flirty.
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BEWARE!
I designed the tips on this blog post for women who want to stop wondering if a man likes them.
They will also help you increase the intensity of attraction with a man you already started a relationship.
[Read another of my texting technique posts “10 Kinky and Cute Text Messages to Make Him Chase” OR 10 Flirty Texts to Send the New Guy ]
This post will help you if you wish to look irresistible to him and feel sexy and wanted back.
If you fear things could get out of hand and he might like you too much or get clingy then this post is not for you.
If you think all men are pigs then this post is not for you either
The flirty text messages in this post are about clean fun, feelings, charm.
I want you to keep your respect while you capture his heart and make him chase you.
Today’s post has nothing to do with sexting.
I have some other posts coming in the near future for when you turn up the heat.
What Men Want While Texting
We want to feel appreciated and special to you so…
…the most powerful flirty text messages to turn on any man and keep him interested include these two ingredients…
Bold Questions.
Bold Compliments.
Some of my favorite flirty texts to make men chase, think about you and desire you are taught here by Amy North (Text Chemistry).
These spicy texts say some pretty hot things to make men like you over text and want to work hard to earn your affection.
Top 10 Flirty Text Messages to Capture His Heart
…And Make Him Chase You EVERY Time without Fail
I tricked you. A little at least. BUT I have something better than you expected. Yes, I list some examples of my top flirty text messages, but I categorize them. Truthfully the words do not matter BECAUSE you can interchange them.
The concept of each of these flirty text messages will make him chase you and make you become his secret obsession.
This way you can create your own. Over and over again.
The one thing that all these flirty text messages have in common is they tease and create massive curiosity.
Read my list and answer the polls.
1. Sorry You Can’t Reply…
- I bet you’re at work now. I just couldn’t resist asking you something. (Insert winking emoji here).
- I know you’re busy, but want to know one thing I noticed about you?
Send him the most flirty text messages when he doesn’t have much time to reply back. Squirms and sweats because he wants to text back but barely has time to reply.
He’s dying to know the rest of what you want to say.
2. Missing Information
- You know the two things that come to my mind when I think about you?
- You know what I look forward to most the next time I see you?
Wait for him to ask “What?” Then tell him the two things.
Or give him the first thing “1. Your eyes when you laugh”
Then wait for him to ask what the second thing is. He’ll go insane waiting.
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3. Cliff Hanger…
- You really make me happy when…
- The thing that makes me smile most about you is…
Don’t finish your message. Leave 3 dots at the end and wait for him to ask for the rest. It puts into practice to make him chase you. He squirms to wait for the second part.
When he no longer can resist waiting. He’ll ask you to tell him.
That’s when you know you got him.
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…like, “Hey”…
…and then GET a DATE?
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4. Seductive Questions (but clean)
- Do you know the little thing you do that turns me on the most?
- I probably shouldn’t tell you this, but do you know what I find irresistible about you?
Only use seductive questions until after you have that gut feeling (or know for certain) that he likes you.
Keep it tame at first. Then turn up the heat. If all goes well then do it in the same conversation, otherwise, wait until the next time.
Either way you win. You make him chase you.
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5. Imaginary Situations
- If you could be anywhere in the world right now, where would you go?
- If I were a magic lamp and you rubbed me, what three wishes would you request of the genie?
You could make these more seductive than the above examples.
Imaginary situations make him chase you by engaging him into a fun conversation. Any reply he gives you, you could ask him to talk more.
The more he talks and you listen he feels special.
Plus you can allows turn it into a flirty game where you put yourself into another imaginary situation with him.
He would go to the beach so he could relax and look at the water- ask if he would let you join him.
6. Guess What?
- Guess what I am thinking about right now?
- Guess what?
Yes, that simple. “Guess what?” will make any man swell up with anticipation.
Any cute response to him asking, “What?” will work.
He’ll just itch in anticipation waiting for you to tell him the next part.
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7. Bold Seductive Compliments
- Has anyone told you how sexy your eyes look when you laugh?
- Would it offend you if I told you that I just can’t resist looking at your lips when you smile?
The question form of a compliment will entice him to respond. These compliments above are very specific to him and extremely unique.
I die when women use these types of compliments on me.
8. Jump Through the Phone
- Is there any room for me to sit? (In reply to him saying he is watching a movie while sitting on the couch).
- Give me your hand. I’m going to read your palm.
When you pretend you are there he suddenly starts to quiver in excitement. It’s almost like you turned the flirty text messages into an actual date.
He can’t help, but imagine what you describe.
Make up something cute and playful. It doesn’t matter what it is. “Your hand says that your favorite thing about a woman is her laugh.”)
He will engage in the act and follow your lead.
You can even start everything out with something super simple like, “Let’s play a game.”
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9. I Didn’t Want to…But
- I didn’t want to stare, but what color are your eyes. They glimmer in the light.
- I didn’t want to make you uncomfortable, but your collar was messed up. Would you have let me fix it?
The secret here is that you display that you held back pent up temptation to act. Now he will invite you to either finish the compliment or thank you for it.
10. I bet I can guess…?
- I bet I can guess what you’re doing.
- I bet I can guess what you’re thinking about right now.
No man will resist replying to flirty text messages like these.
Again the reply does not really matter. You got him to engage. That’s all that counts.
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Great article Orlando! I was obsessed with a guy that kept giving me the hot and cold treatment. I managed to get him to chase but he eventually lost interest again -_-.
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Thank you. This has helped me so much and my friend.
Wow, that’s a nice collection with examples. Sending flirty text is one of the best way to make for an interesting relationship and also for couples to get closer to each other. Not only flirty texts will make men smile, it will also make them go crazy for their girl .With so many text ideas I don’t see how anyone can not find the right words to text their boyfriend or husband.
In your opinion, what’s a flirty text message us guys would reply to?
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You have the most creative and spicy texts! They are sooo helpful when all the guy sends are the usual “hi”, and “how are you” texts and I run out of responses. Also these texts help you break friendzone too. I can testify that as soon as you start texting your man differently, he will notice and thoughts will come to his mind!
Really helpful, thanks
You’re welcome. Have you tried any of my top 10 flirty text messages from this post?
Thank you Winnifred for leaving a comment. The key really is to get the guy guessing and wanting to play along. Become mysterious and irresistible to him with playful, flirty, unexpected texts and back-and-forth sequences. Us men love creative flirting. In the end, it just shows that you like us and find us attractive. Winnifred, what’s your best text you ever sent a guy?
That would be “I just finished a meeting and I definitely wasn’t thinking about you most of the time. Ok, bye! ;)”. This one is memorable because it was my first time trying to get out of the friendzone through texting. Just thought of another one: I normally am not allowed to text at work, but lucky for you, you’re the one guy I find hard to resist.
Cute! Good job making him feel special and like you are the prize to be won and that he successfully earned the right to receive texts from you during a time that normally you are not permitted to be on your phone.